If you learn code easily, I would suggest trying to learn yourself. You could either look up some tutorials online, or go to your local bookstore or Amazon and buy a book from there. ;) Do you know anything like PHP? If you do, you should be able to learn flash fairly easily. But, make sure you have the money to invest in Adobe Flash and other costs (if that is what you will be using.)
You could always post your project on a freelancer site (really the best place to get a variety of deals), like
GetAFreelancer (
A top rated site, I'm a member there as well)
That CreatureBreeder.com looks like a pretty nice site, and a nice starting point if this is all overwhelming.
And yes, there is a way to link it together with your pages, most of the online social world games are linked with PHP pages for login, registration and such. I do not however, know how you could do this.